the thought over love game…

Certainly, the majority of people dream of perfect love which combines all three components. But cases when for perfect love people accept blind passion which differs that in it there is no original affinity are frequent. And also quite often happens that for years of a joint life the passionate love dies away, and on its place the love-association, different presence of components of affinity and the obligation comes. Negative feelings, especially anger are very dangerous to affinity between loving people and irritation which destroy love. The fear to be rejected also interferes with affinity, especially when it pushes to aspiration to please the one whom you love, to become it necessary, and at all aspiration to realise the internal requirements. Traditional ways of courting also can interfere with affinity if they are deprived a sincere exchange of feelings, and instead are limited to one rituals. Some opposite extreme measures can be even more destroying: the casual sexual relations, the thought over love game, rough frankness and affected coldness.